It's life, may be you're not falling behind..
I bet a lot of you out here reading this are the people who like to have things a little organised for them in life. Just a basic blue print if not completely calculated and kept aside.
from basics like what you should do by the time you're a certain age, that job, that thing you've always wanted to do but never got on your butt to do it.
If you never got inspired enough to do it, you won't do it. As simple as cleaning your wardrobe.
If you don't get inspired, you just don't god dammit. It's ok. You cannot possibly force yourself into doing something so that it fits within that plan in your head. There might be times you are so caught up, you don't even open your wardrobe, but just circulate the washed clothes from the past 10 days. IT'S OK!! Don't let that drive you mad.
You should've ideally finished writing your thesis by now, you didn't. IT'S FINE! You cannot push yourself to do it when you have zero inspiration to do it. You'd rather delay it and do a good job, than do a shit job now since you just HAVE to do it. This will just frustrate you more, you know that.
You can't always be inspired by your plan and be perfect. We are humans, we get lazy and sleepy and cranky, let's face it. We cannot manipulate the truth. This doesn't mean our plan is destroyed and life is crap. You'll find the day and time someday, and it'll happen on its own.
I'm sure in all the planning you ever made for yourself, you forgot to consider something called 'The Universe and Life'. I'm sure you never calculated the uncertainty and unpredictability of the power of that's beyond your control. You can't make the universe revolve faster than it's actually course right. When it happens in it's own time, it's just as beautiful, or even more beautiful than it would be if you forced it to skip four days out of it's cycle.
Time is something we forget we can't chase. It's always easier to surrender to it.
Yes, I know its empowering and wonderful to be in charge of your own life, make your own plans, make the money you always imagined you'd make, be as hot as you saw yourself in your head etc.
In turn to make this happen, you either overexert yourself and get worn out, or you tear and hurt your muscles so bad that you can't hit the gym after three days of working out in the process to be the hot you. What are you doing in this process? aren't you slowing down the process automatically? Ultimately you'll get all those things only after a certain amour of time, patience and hard work.
There's always a magic force that works beyond out understanding. Stop trying to dissect the force and be the ruler of all. It's not going to work. SO CALM DOWN!
Out of 10 things on your list to do by the time you're 30, if you've even managed to tick 4, be happy. There are people who have noir been able to do it even when they were 30. Also it means probably there's a reason they couldn't do it. May be it is something you do when you're 40 and not 30. it doesn't mean you're falling back, for god's sake get that out of your head. It only means you get more things to add on your list that you probably never even considered to do earlier, and once you do them, it'll probably make you happier than you imagined.
Stop calculating. Just live, breath, and do things as they come. I'm not saying stop planning altogether. Just saying don't feel bad if it doesn't happen when you thought it was the tight time, it's probably just not the time yet :)
Give yourself permission to be human, we are not going by any rule book here.
I'm not sure if life in itself is a calculated risk or not, but it's a risk alright.
It'll all happen, and it'll be worth it when it does.
If you still think you're falling back on the plans in life, sssshhhhh
go back and read this again.
from basics like what you should do by the time you're a certain age, that job, that thing you've always wanted to do but never got on your butt to do it.
If you never got inspired enough to do it, you won't do it. As simple as cleaning your wardrobe.
If you don't get inspired, you just don't god dammit. It's ok. You cannot possibly force yourself into doing something so that it fits within that plan in your head. There might be times you are so caught up, you don't even open your wardrobe, but just circulate the washed clothes from the past 10 days. IT'S OK!! Don't let that drive you mad.
You should've ideally finished writing your thesis by now, you didn't. IT'S FINE! You cannot push yourself to do it when you have zero inspiration to do it. You'd rather delay it and do a good job, than do a shit job now since you just HAVE to do it. This will just frustrate you more, you know that.
You can't always be inspired by your plan and be perfect. We are humans, we get lazy and sleepy and cranky, let's face it. We cannot manipulate the truth. This doesn't mean our plan is destroyed and life is crap. You'll find the day and time someday, and it'll happen on its own.
I'm sure in all the planning you ever made for yourself, you forgot to consider something called 'The Universe and Life'. I'm sure you never calculated the uncertainty and unpredictability of the power of that's beyond your control. You can't make the universe revolve faster than it's actually course right. When it happens in it's own time, it's just as beautiful, or even more beautiful than it would be if you forced it to skip four days out of it's cycle.
Time is something we forget we can't chase. It's always easier to surrender to it.
Yes, I know its empowering and wonderful to be in charge of your own life, make your own plans, make the money you always imagined you'd make, be as hot as you saw yourself in your head etc.
In turn to make this happen, you either overexert yourself and get worn out, or you tear and hurt your muscles so bad that you can't hit the gym after three days of working out in the process to be the hot you. What are you doing in this process? aren't you slowing down the process automatically? Ultimately you'll get all those things only after a certain amour of time, patience and hard work.
There's always a magic force that works beyond out understanding. Stop trying to dissect the force and be the ruler of all. It's not going to work. SO CALM DOWN!
Out of 10 things on your list to do by the time you're 30, if you've even managed to tick 4, be happy. There are people who have noir been able to do it even when they were 30. Also it means probably there's a reason they couldn't do it. May be it is something you do when you're 40 and not 30. it doesn't mean you're falling back, for god's sake get that out of your head. It only means you get more things to add on your list that you probably never even considered to do earlier, and once you do them, it'll probably make you happier than you imagined.
Stop calculating. Just live, breath, and do things as they come. I'm not saying stop planning altogether. Just saying don't feel bad if it doesn't happen when you thought it was the tight time, it's probably just not the time yet :)
Give yourself permission to be human, we are not going by any rule book here.
I'm not sure if life in itself is a calculated risk or not, but it's a risk alright.
It'll all happen, and it'll be worth it when it does.
If you still think you're falling back on the plans in life, sssshhhhh
go back and read this again.
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